Lovers Separated by distance
How it started

I met my boyfriend at this online game that I used to play 3-4 years ago. He lives in Michigan & I’m from Hong Kong. We really didn’t get to talk much. in fact we actually disliked each other. My friends and his friends were enemies (in game) :P. We would kill each other & insult each other in the game. It was really funny. One day I just decided to go to their side (his friends side). We still didn’t talk tho.

I totally forgot how I end up having him on facebook. All I know is we would like or comment on each others status msgs. Middle of november, I remember greeting him on his birthday, and that’s how we both started talking. he PM me on msn asking how was i, it was a normal hi and bye conversation. Next thing I know I was telling him about my relationship with my ex who happens to be a friend of his. And he told me that he his past too, and apparently they’re a friend of mine as well. It was really funny cause we just continued talking about it thru out the whole night.. 

we were both in LDRs before, but it didn’t work out. My ex end up liking the girl that petar was trying to talk with. So yeah, it was a funny story. ANWYAS!

Me and petar decided to go back to the game and start playing again. One day we got so bored and we were spamming each others PM’s with kisses, basically we started flirting, calling each other pet names. We would spend 11 hours just talking about random stuff.  Everyday! 

We both told ourselves that we won’t get into another LDR ever again cause that crap is hard, esp cause our past LDR was really bad. But than, I started to fall for him, it wasn’t hard that hard to fall for someone like him. He was really sweet, caring, ALWAYS knows how to make me laugh at least try to. Later on we both confessed how we felt for each other.To be honest, he wasn’t really actually my type at all, but the thing is, I fell so hard cause of his personality! Hes smart, he would always challenge me about stuff. He would always remind me how beautiful i am, he would make me feel how beautiful i am, every single day!

So, One day, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him that I would think about it first, he gave me a day or two to think about it.

And at the end i’m like.

“alright, i’m gonna give LDR another chance, i hope this time it’ll work!”

& we made it Official on December 2, 2010 <3. 

I love him so much! Words cannot explain how much I feel for him.He makes me the happiest girlfriend. He even get to surprised me on my birthday, it was really sweet of him <3. He would ALWAYS remind me to take my medicine whenever im sick, always tells me to take good care of myself. Even if he’s 8000 miles away from me, he would always make me feel that he’s just next to me :).

It’s been 6 months and 23 days we’ve been through a lot, you guys have NO idea especially lately. A lot of ppl dosn’t really support my relationship with him. We would get hate mails, people would always try to break us. They would give us negative comments about it. It’s really hard. But than again, who cares about what they say. They don’t know exactly what me and my boyfriend feel for each other. 

6 months and 23 days. He still manage to give me butterflies every day, i still get so excited every time i see him online on skype or when he calls <3. I love him so much i wouldn’t trade him for anything in this world at all. No one ever made me feel this way before, I know it sound so corny, but its the truth! HAHA

He’s actually planning to visit hong kong somewhere this year if not this year, hes coming over next year. I can’t wait ! I’m dying to see him in person <3 I so can’t wait to be in his arms.

I’m really glad to give LDR another chance.

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hey! i just want to say i love ur blog! <3 im in a ldr my boyfriends in college away and im home going to a county college. we have our ups and downs but its all good ... haha but ut blog is good bc who ever thought a ldr cant work is wrong if theres love and comitment any relationship will work weither its long distance or near ... thanks :D

thank you dear.. hope you could share your own love story to us… :) in terms of love,distance is not a hindrance..long distance works! <3

My love story :)

I really do love your blog and I thought I’m gonna share my own love story with you :)

I’m in a LDR for 9 months now. It’s been beautiful and terrible at the same time to be honest. We met each other on Twitter but in those 9 months we never got the chance to actually meet each other. We just been talking on msn or on the phone. I knew right from the start that he was the one tho. Yes, we never met each other before but it just clicked. My parents and friends thought I am crazy. They said it’s not possible to fall in love when you haven’t even met each other. But we’ve been talking almost 24/7 and I fell for him more and more.  He always knows when something is wrong, even if we are just talking on msn, he never fails to cheer me up or make me smile when I cry. We send each other a lot of pictures just so we know how the other looks like today. We always talked about the day we finally gonna be together and our future. I can’t go one minute without talking to him. I’m seriously addicted to him. If he’s in a bad mood or just sad or upset…I feel the exact same. He affects my mood in so many ways. I know it sounds crazy and most of the people won’t understand because yes, you usually don’t fall in love like this but I truly now that this is real love. We trust each other and we can tell each other everything. Yes the distance complicates stuff and it’s killing me not to have him with me every day but I know it’s worth it. Our love story is something special. And I really do believe that he’s the guy I’m gonna spend the rest of my life with.

So now, after 9 long and hard months…we FINALLY met each other for the first time. He came to visit me and I picked him up from the airport 2 days ago. When our eyes met, we both started to walk faster until our lips finally met and our arms were wrapped around each other. It was so perfect. It didn’t feel like we met each other for the first time, but I was so happy to finally be in his arms. We didn’t stop kissing for about 30 minutes. None of us wanted to let go of the other. And we said “I love you” for 1292389147 times. It was kind of like a cheesy black and white holiwood movie to be honest :’)

So yes, he’s gonna stay with me for 2 months now and I love every minute we spend together. I already fear the day we’ll have to say goodbye tho.  I know it will be even harder after he’s gone. But this LDR is by far the best thing that’s ever happened to me.

I’m so glad to have my boyfriend, I really do love him with all my heart, he’s my soulmate and distance really doesn’t matter if you truly love someone :)

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hi.. um i need some advice. im in a long distance relationship for about 14 months now.. and he's going to be working the whole summer and save money to come visit me. but since he's so busy he doesnt really have time to talk since he's working or sleeping. it's really taking a toll on our relationship since it's based on communication. and im just really scared. should i mention it to him or am i right for worrying so much?
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hi there… you need to open and share your worries or feelings about your relationship now so he can also plan and think of ways to strengthen the relationship despite of his busy schedules. And as a girlfriend you also need to be understanding. You need to trust him and set schedules even once a week to talk to him, for sure maybe in 7 days your bf have some rest day from work. Communication is always the best key to any relationship. And hope you wont give up, you are even one of his reasons why he is working and its to visit you,you should be thankful for that. Just be patience, and don’t stop believing that LDR will really work. Don’t give up on all the trials that couples will really experience,these are just test how strong both of you are. 

Hey. Great blog. I am in LDR too, 2 years and 2 months now and going strong.

Thank you! Good luck on your relationship,have faith, dont stop loving and believing that long distance relationship will really work out til the end.

long distance relationships

long distance relationships are the purest test of love. if you can love someone on the other side of the world and still trust them, you’ve already got what a lot of ‘real relationships’ don’t. and the fact that you can give up whatever you have to or want to do just to talk to them because of the time difference, that’s just amazing.

oh yeah:D there are a lot of people who are separated by ldr:D well i'm one:D and it dosent matter as long as u still love each other :D

hope you’ll share to us  your own love story someday ;)

i love this blog. im in an ldr relationship too <3

thank you…! Pls feel free to share your own love story to us.. And if ever you need advice about love or anything, Team SBD is willing to help you. Just message us and we will never ignore you ;)

so its me again. hihi.. i just wana share a link of my bf's website. he's a magician from florida and and also a poet. he has his own poetry books that he sells. and at the same time he uses his poems while doin his magic.

the 4, 5, and 6th book are about us. 4th is our comment boxing session on facebook turned to poems. 5th is how he was before and after me. himala is miracle in Filipino btw. and 6th is our first yr of being together... entries are from his and my blog.. entries in his notebook.. some are just things ive said that he wrote down..

http://antinoart.weebly.com/store.html

:)

just checked the site…. aww… thats so sweet..we envy you.. wish our bf will write poem and have a book about us… you’re lucky to have him in your life… always stay in love…